In the Bible, the word "Christian" only appears three times. In Acts 11:26, Luke writes "...The disciples were called Christians first at Antioch." In Acts 26:28, King Agrippa tells Paul; "In a short time you will persuade me to become a Christian." And, in 1 Peter 4:16: "...but if anyone suffers as a Christian, let him not feel ashamed, but in that name let him glorify God." In each case, the Greek word Christianos (khris-tee-an-os') is used, which is translated "follower of Christ."
So, what does it mean to be a Christian, a follower of Jesus Christ? It means you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, by accepting Him as your personal Lord and Savior. Simply believing in God is not enough. Being a good person is not enough. Nor is going to church, giving, serving, helping the poor,... although all of those good things are done by Christians. Let's look at what the Bible says:
When Adam and Eve sinned, they ruined it for all of us. From that point on, we were separated from God by sin. Not just Adam and Eve's sin, but our sins as well. Although you may believe that you are a good person, the bible says differently:
"... for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God." -- Romans 3:23
"All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one." -- Romans 3:12
"There is not a righteous man on earth who does what is right and never sins." -- Ecclesiastes 7:20
The Bible is pretty clear that we are not "good" on our own merit. We cannot earn God's forgiveness:
"8 For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith -- and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God -- 9 not by works, so that no one can boast." -- Ephesians 2:8-9
The only way we can be saved is through faith. We cannot earn God's forgiveness through works (things we do), and we surely don't deserve it, because we will never live up to God's standard. And, even if it was possible to be good enough for God, how would you know? What would be good enough? It's easy to say a thief is bad and a priest was good, but most of us fall somewhere in the middle. Do you see that there would be no way to know if you were good enough or not? And the Bible says we can know with certainty if we are going to heaven or not:
"There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit." -- Romans 8:1
We don't have to wonder if we will go to heaven when we die. We can know for sure. How can that be?
The only way for us to be reconciled to God is through His son. Jesus died on the cross so that we could be reconciled to God:
"16 "For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. ++ 17 For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him." -- John 3:16-17
"But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." -- Romans 5:8
"18 All this is from God, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: 19 that God was reconciling the world to Himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them. And He has committed to us the message of reconciliation." -- 2 Corinthians 5:18-19
Not only did Christ die for us, but we see that God did this while we were still sinners. He didn't wait for us to "clean up our act," or "get our life straightened out." He took the first step. It is up to us to take the next step, which is accepting this gift through faith in Jesus Christ.
Many people believe "Born Again" is a modern day expression to describe people who hold up the Bible or John 3:16 signs in the end zone or stand on street corners yelling "Repent or go to hell!" The truth is, "Born Again Christian" is the spiritual changing inside and the new life in Christ by the power of the Holy Spirit more than outside actions. Jesus first used the expression when He was talking to Nicodemus, a religious leader:
"I tell you the truth, no one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again." -- John 3:3
He also said:
"I am the way, and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me." -- John 14:6
"Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it." -- Matthew 7:13-14
You see, many people believe in God and believe that by being a "good person" they will go to heaven (the wide gate), but significantly less have a personal relationship with Jesus (the narrow gate). Only those who enter the narrow gate by way of Jesus are forgiven and will spend eternity in heaven. Many more people will be surprised to find that everything they did never good enough by God's standard without that relationship with Jesus:
"21 "Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven. 22 Many will say to Me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?' 23 Then I will tell them plainly, 'I never knew you. Away from Me, you evildoers!'" -- Matthew 7:21-23
In other words, none of the "good things" we do count for anything without a personal relationship with Jesus. All of the good things may be done by Christians, but they do not MAKE someone a Christian, because "Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart." (1Samuel 16:7). The ONLY thing that matters is whether or not Jesus knows you, and the only way that happens is by accepting Him as your personal Lord and Savior.
+ 2 Corinthians 5:17-21:
"17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!
18 All this is from God, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation:
19 that God was reconciling the world to Himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them. And He has committed to us the message of reconciliation.
20 We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making His appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: Be reconciled to God.
21 God made Him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in Him we might become the righteousness of God."
Maybe this is the first time you've really understood what it means to be a Christian. If you have never asked God to give you His free gift of forgiveness through His Son, Jesus Christ, there is never a better time than right now. Maybe you've never done this, or you're not sure if you have. Pray this prayer:
"Dear God, I know I am a sinner. Please forgive me. Thank You for Your Son Jesus Christ and His death on the cross for my sins. I believe that You raised Him from the dead. I accept Jesus, right now, as my personal Lord and Savior. Please help me to begin to live my life in the way You want me to from this day forward. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen."
+ Congratulation! By praying this prayer, confessing your sins, and receiving Jesus Christ into your heart, God has given you the right to become His forgiven child. The Bible gives you this assurance: "But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name" (John 1:12).
++ Perhaps you prayed something like this a long time ago, but you've fallen away from God. If you would like to recommit yourself to Him, pray this prayer:
"Dear God, please forgive me for not living my life the way You want me to. I recommit myself to You right now, and I ask You (Your Holy Spirit) to help me start living my life for You from this day forward. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen."
If you prayed either of these prayers, then we say HALLELULIA! God probably has a tear of joy in His eye right now! Nothing pleases Him more than when one of His children comes back home.
"7 I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent. 10 In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents." -- Luke 15:7, 10.
"Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with Me." -- Revelation 3:20